So I am at Boreal pretending that I am on a Sex & The City episode. Without the sex. Without the city. Actually I am there with my little laptop writing my upcoming posts. Me writing in a coffee shop is a SATC moment in my mind. Whatever, right? Anyway two days in a row, right in front of me, the same couple settles down for a coffee. They have no idea that I can understand their language. So they speak freely. Pretty much about everything. Some controversial topics like beauty interventions or even more trivial topics, such as their day. I have to admit that this was almost like an accident on the highway. You know, it is horrible, but still you want to look at it. What was horrible about this? The guy! Oh my! Although his physique was soft and rather civilized, his behavior and views were beyond annoying. He was criticizing his girlfriend about everything. What she was doing, what she was not doing. Right there, earlier that day at the church or even back at home. He had absolute insisting point of views. Most of the time hyperconservative, the middle-ages kind. Always with the confidence of I know it all, I control it all. I do not think that the guy said a single nice thing about her, or anything on this earth, for the 2 hours we spent together over this weekend.

Kick-out-negative-people-quoteThe girl was beautiful and sweet and she was very reasonable. I agreed with most of her positions. She was down to earth and realistic. She had the guts to disagree with him and tell him that he was exaggerating. She did not seem stressed, but rather depressed at time by his negativity. He was unacceptable. I wanted to punch him at some point. I felt bad for the girl. What was weird is that she seemed in love with him. At times she was lying on him. And they were holding hands. Obviously there was intimacy and love between them. If you had not heard the conversations, or if you had nbot understood what they were saying, you would have thought that they are so beautifully in love. However myself, I could not stop but wonder why he was like that and why she was tolerating such a negative behavior from him. Actually negative doesn’t describe it. The guy felt more toxic than any of Monsanto’s by-products. Why was he like that? Why she didn’t change him or dump him actually? I would have dumped him for sure. What is your take? What do you think? So here are my questions.

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I was So tempted to post this on Valentine´s day

Posted by Eva Geneva on Saturday, February 13, 2016

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